Pastor Tunde Bakare, Serving Overseer of the Citadel Global Community Church and a prominent advocate for better governance in Nigeria, recently celebrated his 40th wedding anniversary in Lagos. During the celebration, his first daughter, Olubunmi Fabode, shared a deeply emotional and inspiring story about how her prayers saved her parents’ marriage from the grip of generational curses.
A Marriage on the Brink
Fabode revealed that her parents’ marriage was more than just a union—it was a battleground for confronting generational curses. She recalled a pivotal moment at the tender age of seven when her father informed her of his decision to separate from her mother.
“When I was seven years old, my father came to the room and told me, ‘Your mother and I are going our separate ways. I am telling you this so you can decide who you want to live with,’” she said.
While many children might have been overwhelmed by such a revelation, Fabode displayed an incredible level of maturity and resolve. Her motivation to intervene came not only from her love for her parents but also from her deep affection for her siblings.
“I didn’t care so much about my mum and dad not living together,” she explained, “but I thought if they were separated, my siblings might choose either of our parents. And I knew that could not work because I absolutely love my siblings. They are the joy of my life.”
This love for her family became the driving force behind her prayers, as she sought divine intervention to save her parents’ marriage and preserve the unity of her family.
Generational Curses: A Spiritual Battle
Fabode described her parents’ marriage as a battleground where generational curses were confronted and wrestled to the ground. Her statement sheds light on the spiritual challenges that often plague families, particularly those with unresolved ancestral issues.
Her mother’s unique upbringing also played a role in the dynamics of their marriage. Raised by a British foster parent, her grandmother, and later by her father and stepmother, Mrs. Bakare brought her own life experiences into the marriage. These complexities further deepened the challenges they faced as a couple.
Fabode’s testimony underscores the importance of faith, prayer, and resilience in overcoming spiritual and emotional hurdles within a marriage.
Pastor Tunde Bakare: A Towering Figure in Nation Building
While his daughter’s testimony offered a glimpse into the personal struggles he faced, Pastor Tunde Bakare is widely recognized for his significant contributions to Nigeria’s socio-political landscape.
A distinguished lawyer who transitioned into pastoral ministry, Bakare is celebrated for his courage and intellect. President Bola Ahmed Tinubu described him as pivotal in leading civil demonstrations during critical moments in Nigeria’s history.
Former President Muhammadu Buhari also lauded him as:
“A gadfly and a valuable asset to Nigeria… a living legend who left a lucrative law practice to work as a pastor, a towering figure in nation building, and an embodiment of intellect, integrity, and courage.”
These accolades highlight Bakare’s dual roles as a spiritual leader and a national figure advocating for change and better governance in Nigeria.
Lessons from the Bakare Family’s Journey
The Bakare family’s story serves as a powerful reminder of the challenges and triumphs within marriages and the role that faith and prayer can play in overcoming adversity.
Key Takeaways:
- The Power of Prayer: Olubunmi Fabode’s unwavering faith and prayers not only saved her parents’ marriage but also preserved the unity of her family.
- Generational Curses Can Be Broken: The family’s story underscores the importance of confronting and resolving spiritual battles that can impact relationships.
- Resilience in Marriage: The Bakare marriage, despite its challenges, stands as a testament to the power of perseverance and divine intervention.
- The Role of Family Love: Fabode’s love for her siblings fueled her determination to keep her family together, demonstrating the impact of selflessness and unity.
A Milestone Celebration
The 40th wedding anniversary of Pastor Tunde Bakare and his wife is not just a celebration of their marital journey but also a testament to the power of faith in overcoming life’s adversities. It’s a story that resonates with countless families facing similar struggles, offering hope and inspiration.
As Pastor Bakare continues to champion national transformation and better governance in Nigeria, his personal journey serves as a reminder that even those who appear strong in public face battles in their private lives.