Dr. Omotola Bamigbaiye’s memoir, Imperfectly Awesome: Embracing and Becoming a Whole You, tells a powerful story of resilience and self-discovery. She takes readers through her life, from the busy streets of Lagos to corporate boardrooms, shaped by her family’s unwavering support.
At her book reading in Lagos, Bamigbaiye shared personal stories from the book. She spoke about lessons learned, including the joy of rediscovering passions and the struggle of balancing life’s challenges. “Life is easier when you learn from others,” she told the audience, setting the tone for her work.
Her story touches on motherhood, career struggles, and dealing with impostor syndrome. She celebrated her mother, who supported her children tirelessly, ensuring they had a stable foundation. “She was always there, from their first days at school to every vacation,” Bamigbaiye said, her gratitude evident.
The book also reveals her struggles as a single mother after losing her job. Bamigbaiye found strength in her family’s support, pushing herself forward when hope seemed lost. “If no one gingers you, you ginger yourself,” she said, reflecting her philosophy of self-reliance.
Throughout the memoir, she shares sharp insights mixed with humor, showing that setbacks can lead to growth. In Girl, Get Up, she advises single mothers to build structures that support them and their families. “The process and support system matter most,” she stressed.
In Chapter 8, she encourages readers to stop waiting for approval and create their own opportunities. “Why wait to be invited to the table? Build your own and invite others,” she urged, inspiring action.
Imperfectly Awesome is a relatable Nigerian story of struggle and triumph. Bamigbaiye’s words remind readers that imperfection is not failure but part of the journey to success.